Peace for Your Christmas

Experiencing loss during the holiday season

Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash

‘Twas the morning before Christmas and all through your house,

Not a creature was stirring, not even your spouse;

His bed was pulled close to the fireplace with care,

In hopes that his grandchildren would open presents there.

His weakened frame nestled snug by the tree,

As your mind recalled years you’d danced ‘round with glee.

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Holiday and hospice are forever linked in your mind. I can only imagine how hard it was for you to make that call. After sitting on the verge of recovery for weeks, it was evident that comfort care was his best route forward.

Please put in an order, I would like to pursue hospice.

My heart aches as an empathetic nod to the pain you must be experiencing.

Your sweet husband of 52 years lay immobile, his 6’2” build complicating any assistance with daily cares. You did the right thing. I just wish you didn’t have to decide that at Christmas.

When I read your text this morning, that his final rest had come and he was at peace, this song played in my mind.

Peace for Your Christmastime (MountainCity)

“Peace, peace, peace for your Christmastime
Grace for your family and hope in your heart
Peace, peace, peace for your Christmastime
Joy for your family and love in your home.”

You fought a hard battle alongside him these last months, he was blessed by your loving care. I pray that your heart finds peace knowing his pain is finally over. Lean into the love of your children and remember the joyful times you shared in years gone by.

And now, during the pain of your loss, may this peace slowly bring healing to your soul.

Thank you for being here,