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Stephanie Schaible, MT (ASCP)'s avatar

I once heard the question asked- would it be easier for you to let your feet be washed or to wash someone else's feet? I think it has become very hard for Americans to let someone else wash their feet. It can be hard to be a good receiver, but if the help is needed and it also brings the giver joy to help, then it sounds like asking for help is a very good thing. Thank you for this reminder.

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Stacy Wentworth, M.D.'s avatar

I love this series, Cheyenne, and hope you turn it into a book!

I would add that you are not obligated to accept help that you don’t need. If you ask for a ride and someone shows up with a casserole that looks lovely but turns your stomach, don’t feel bad about tossing it. Sometimes people have a hard time listening rather than doing.

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